Unlock His Undying Devotion
Unlock His Undying Devotion
The 1 Simple Idea You Can Implement Right Now...
Do you have a girlfriend who has the ideal boyfriend?
The man with the wonderful floppy hair, the quirky grin, and the large heart who is wholly committed to one person and one person only:
His beloved girlfriend.
You're overjoyed that she found him, but honestly?
You're incredibly envious. It's difficult to stop watching them. He's very attentive to her needs. They seem to communicate ideas without speaking. He wraps his arms around her so firmly that it's as if they're one body. It hurts to look at them because the man at your side does not treat you that way.
It's not that your boyfriend isn't great. Of course, he's fantastic. It's more than that; it's how he treats you.
He treats you as though you're a familiar face.
You know he doesn't wake up every morning pinching himself for getting someone like you.
But you can guarantee that's precisely what the other person does. It's clear to see in his eyes.
The happiness that shines from his smile every time he looks at the lady he loves.
So you ask, half-jokingly, half-hopingly, whether he has any brothers. She just laughs.
"No, that's not what you need." She leans in closer and looks around to make sure no one is listening. "Would you want to hear a secret?"
You eagerly nod.
"Our relationship was exactly like everyone else's before," she says quietly. But then I discovered this bizarre secret. It's kind of like the key to unlocking guys."
You nod even more eagerly, but she's stopped speaking. You track her glance throughout the room. Her partner is holding out a drink and asks her if she wants one without saying anything. She shakes her head, kisses him, and returns her attention to you.
"Would you want to know what it is?"
"Yeah!" you exclaim. "If it helps my partner and I read each other's thoughts as you two just did."
"All well, then pay careful attention..."
All women throughout the world make the same mistake when it comes to men
This is not their fault. They're only following conventional wisdom. Men, according to conventional thinking, only fall for great women. (Mostly exceptional bodies.)
If you see a lady with a guy following after her like a puppy dog, conventional opinion implies she's got something you don't.
It's such a simple explanation, and yet...
It's just incorrect.
That lady?
She isn't any more special than you are. (Whatever it entails.)
She does, however, have a unique knowledge of men.
She realizes that what is most important is NOT what he sees when he looks at her...
But how he perceives himself in her eyes.
The truth is as follows:
Men fall in love with women because of how they make them feel.
When a guy feels like a hero in the eyes of a woman, he promises his eternal devotion to her.
He can't help himself.
Most ladies have no such impact on him.
When he's around most ladies, he feels stupid. He constantly seems to be doing something wrong. He seems to need the services of a nanny.
He can count the number of women who look up to him on one hand, who really appreciate him.
And those ladies will always have a place in his life.
So, how do you make a guy believe he is a hero?
It sounds a little stupid.
Do you have to create a situation in which he needs to rescue kids from a burning home or an elderly woman from being struck by a car?
No. It's much easier than that.
There's one simple thing you can do right now to make your boyfriend feel like a hero:
You may express your gratitude to him for all he does for you.
Did he offer to get you anything to drink?
Express your gratitude.
Did he finish washing the dishes?
Express your gratitude.
Did he drop you off for a meeting?
Express your gratitude.
He is a hero to you every day, even if you don't perceive it that way.
Has your boyfriend "rescued you" in a metaphorical way in the recent week?
Perhaps he dropped everything to assist you.
Maybe he was there when you needed someone to talk to.
Perhaps his counsel helped you make a tough choice.
We have a tendency to take such things for granted. We anticipate it. It dulls our awareness of the true marvel of having someone to depend on.
But the more you appreciate him... The more he adores YOU.
That is not what most people come to believe.
Most women believe they can win a man's love by doing several things for him.
They've got it all wrong.
To win a man's admiration, appreciate anything he does for you, no matter how little.
It activates his "Hero Instinct."
The Power of Response
For the time being, just remember that the key to unlocking his everlasting affection is NOT in all you do for him...
However, it is in how you react to all he does for you.
Did he just envelop you in his arms?
Give a tiny contentment wriggle.
Did he agree to watch the TV show you wanted to see?
Give him a thankful kiss.
Reward the tiny things he accomplishes, and you'll find your partner seeking to please you more and more.
He is your champion.
That is what heroes do.
But that's only the start.
You can do so much more to activate his hero instinct.
There are words, messages, and little requests you can utilize to awaken his hero instinct 100 times more strongly than just thanking him.
And, since no guy can resist a lady who makes him feel like a hero, knowing a handful of these emotional trigger spots is valuable.
Do you want to improve your relationship capabilities with men?
Then find out how you may master this amazing method. To watch the brief video, please click the link below.
References:
Lee, H. W., Bradburn, J., Johnson, R.E., Lin, S., & Chang, C. (2019). The benefits of receiving gratitude for helpers: A daily investigation of proactive and reactive helping at work. Journal of Applied Psychology, 104, 197 – 213.
Canevello A, Crocker J. Creating good relationships: Responsiveness, relationship quality, and interpersonal goals. J Pers Soc Psychol. 2010;99(1):78-106. doi:10.1037/a0018186
Visserman, M. L., Righetti, F., Impett, E. A., Keltner, D., & Van Lange, P. A. M. (2018). It’s the motive that counts: Perceived sacrifice motives and gratitude in romantic relationships. Emotion, 18, 625 – 637. http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/emo0000344
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