The Attraction Trip-Wire

Trip Wire: "A concealed trigger that sends off a succession of explosive events."

Every guy has a strong desire to be someone's hero deep inside his heart.

This yearning has a long history and ancient origins.

The reason for his desire is inscribed into the very fabric of his DNA. And it's dormant... until the appropriate trigger releases its power one day.

I would like to teach you how to become that trigger, and how to activate your man's bonding urge to full throttle.

But first, a tale. It is a narrative about human connection.

(Alternatively, you may watch the online video here to see how this works right now.)

We need to know something about someone's life story before we can care profoundly about them. Because stories build empathy. Stories help us to put ourselves in the shoes of others.

All interpersonal connections are built on stories. They provide the sense of a single common life experience.

It's surprising, but true, that we can even cheer for thieves and criminals when we witness their tale unfold. Movies such as Ocean's Eleven and The Italian Job are excellent examples of this.

Actors George Clooney, Brad Pitt, and Matt Damon play lovable burglars in the film Ocean's Eleven. But, despite their attractiveness, we are drawn into the plot.

We find out what motivates Danny Ocean to heist a casino. A casino that is also owned by his new ex-wife's boyfriend.

We understand Danny Ocean's anguish. By the close of the film, we're hoping for him to get away with it.

To grab the money and ride into the sunset, accompanied by his ex-wife, Tess.

Stranger yet is how we react to fiction in the first place.

A great author can have me on the edge of my seat, pulling for a character who doesn't exist in real life.

Literary experts may sneer, but I enjoyed Stephanie Meyer's Twilight trilogy. My palm was quivering from adrenaline as the Volturi marched across the field, determined to destroy Isabella's daughter.

But wait, that's all fantasy. So how is it possible that it would induce a physical response in my body?

The power of story, of course, is the answer.

Stories have been the principal mechanism through which people have shared vital knowledge from ancient times.

As a result, our brains are practically wired for stories.

Our emotions are influenced by stories. They are fundamental to communication. Making us feel connected to one another.

I know who I want at my side when I reach the end of my life. Those who have observed my life narrative will do so.

The lovely nurse may be a fantastic person. But if she is a stranger to me, it makes no difference what wonderful qualities she has. I'll still feel lonely.

She is unaware of my history, and I am unaware of hers.

Knowing this intuitively, she will make every effort to gather my friends and family as soon as possible. People who have heard my tale.

You must become a unique part of a man's narrative in order to elicit his innermost feelings of desire.

You do this by expressing your requirements and enabling him to assist you in meeting them. Why? Because it awakens his hero instinct.

Here's how to activate a man's hero instinct:

Story + Need = Activated Hero Instinct.

A man's hero instinct urges him to seek out a relationship that allows him to assume the role of the provider.

That's why men are drawn to women who understand how to set off this attraction tripwire. It sets off a chain of events in his emotional universe.

It makes him joyful in a manner that women find difficult to comprehend. Because they do not share his deeply ingrained need to be someone's hero.

Many women have a hazy understanding of a man's need to view himself as a provider.

They understand why he would get depressed and withdraw from others during a time of unemployment, for example.

These same women, however, fail to realize the potency of the opposite impact...

Make a guy feel like your hero, and he'll be more willing to commit to anything far greater.

He can't help himself. He just begins to see you differently.

It's as if your connection allows him to become the version of himself he's always wanted. It feels right in a manner he can't describe.

It awakens his instincts for protection, the noble qualities of his manhood, and, most crucially, his innermost sentiments of love and desire.

If that sounds good, go here to learn more about this relationship-building tool. It is something that you can learn once and retain for the rest of your life.

You already have wants and needs.

Developing a Deeper Love

Many women are startled after seeing this video to find that a guy might really feel more profoundly in love when he feels more truly needed.

Doesn't it seem strange? And yet, for males, this is the reality.

Many of us have a habit of purchasing presents that we would want to receive ourselves. It may be the same with love.

We aim to love our spouse as we would want to be loved.

As a result, you make him feel special. Nonetheless, he seems unfazed. You talk with him in your native love language. He seemed to speak a different language.

But I'm here to tell you about an extraordinary, universal strategy you may use to capture his attention by instilling in him a sense of heroism.

Click here now to learn about an unfair edge that works for all guys at all stages of life. Assist him in finally seeing you as the one.

I wish you the best of luck.

References:

Wendy A. Suzuki, et al. “Dialogues: The Science and Power of Storytelling“ Journal of Neuroscience 31 October 2018, 38 (44) 9468-9470; DOI: https://doi.org/10.1523/JNEUROSCI.1942-18.2018

Alison Wood Brooks, Francesca Gino, Maurice E. Schweitzer. “Smart People Ask for (My) Advice: Seeking Advice Boosts Perceptions of Competence.” Management Science (2015): Vol. 61, No. 6

Anderson, Cameron & Hildreth, John & Howland, Laura. (2015). Is the Desire for Status a Fundamental Human Motive? A Review of the Empirical Literature. Psychological bulletin. 141. 10.1037/a0038781.